"I can choose to let it define me,
confine me, refine me, outshine me,
or I can choose to move on and let it be behind me."
All too often we get caught up in the craziness and let it take control of our lives. It can make us bitter and miserable. However, if we choose to move on or choose to let those situations (or people) motivate us to come up with a positive outcome, then we are growing personally. Maybe forgiving someone, not for them but for yourself, is what needs to be done, then do it. Why would you let someone or a situation have control of your emotions and life. Being happy is the best gift you can possibly give yourself and it is not something you can buy because that type of happiness only lasts for so long.